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Mental Telepathy In Love Relationships

A favorite clairvoyant counsultant of mine once told me that we're all ridiculously telepathic. People ask her for tips for learning telepathy, however, she shared that it is really about remembering how to tap into our inner senses. It really takes an incredible amount of effort to deny we are all intuitive as well and as often as we do.

Nowhere is telepathic evidence better proven than in a close love relationship. Both personally and as a counselor I've found this to be a mixed blessing. For example, how often during a disagreement one of us has said, "You say _____, but I know that what you really mean is _____". We are convinced that we know the inner mind and heart of our loved one.

I'm not disputing that we may indeed know the true intentions of what our loved one is thinking. There are a couple of ways that this can lead us down the wrong path however.

It can happen that we are using mental telepathy reading our loved one's subconscious or unconscious thoughts. This happens on an uncanny number of occasions. Although the concept may "ring a bell" for our partner when we verbalize it, there may be plenty of room for denial on their part. This is quite natural and legitimate, since, until it is true for the person themselves, it simply isn't true. This can be a hard lesson for the more aware psychic person, as they may be trying very hard to practice validation of their perceptions. One must remember though, that validation of one's ego is not the apparent purpose of a spiritual gift. Instead, we have more often seen that the purpose is to benefit others. Rarely, is it workable or beneficial to override someone's inner reality by asserting the correctness of our own. We certainly may suggest that our alternate perception be considered, but to assert that this is so is a type of violence on another's reality.

As emotional beings we cannot help but to have our perceptions filtered through what we are feeling. This doesn't mean that our perceptions are invalid, but it may indicate that we can misinterpret what we are perceiving. One neglects this possibility at their own peril in interpersonal relationships. Particularly if we are in the grip of a "negative" emotion, i.e., anger, fear, grief or apathy, we are unlikely to have a truly accurate interpretation of any impressions we pick up from another. This is because these self-destructive emotions cloud thought, and telepathy is a function of mind.

What then, is the advantage of mental telepathy in relationship? This is our reminder that we are truly One in Spirit. As spiritual beings, we are inescapably connected to one another. This is part of the omnipotence of Spirit. If It is everywhere, then we must, necessarily be a part of It, and therefore, of each other.

As we are able to accept this truth, to allow ourselves to hear, see and otherwise be aware of the unseen connections between each of us, these perceptions sharpen. Particularly as we permit ourselves to know that each connection is that of love, the accuracy of our perceptions is enhanced.

It has been said that both the optimist and the pessimist are right at least 50% of the time. In my dealings with dozens of psychics and channels, I have seen that this is not necessarily so when it comes to the higher perceptions. It seems that as we elevate ourselves to a more spiritual awareness, pessimistic thinking tends to be riddled with inaccuracies. Optimism however, will far more often tend to be highly accurate, and will hold up to deeper scrutiny.

Therefore, when we are believing in our loved one, having faith in their love and goodness, our spiritual perceptions of them will likely be correct. Even if we are perceiving a "wrongness" of some sort, our faith and love will often present a solution at the same time that we become aware of the problem. This is one of those synchronistic things that we encounter so often on the spiritual path.

As my clairvoyant consultant friend said, using your mental telepathy consciously can develop over time. Love is what makes it safe to open ourselves to be heard on the inner levels and to reach out to another to listen to what is in their hearts.

By Amir 2006-10-12 12:35:27

Hello, I have been attempting to learn how to consciously use telepathy in my quest for higher knowledge; however, without a teacher or partner I am left alone groping around in the dark. I have had some small success, but it was random. Do you have anymore tips that you think would help me? Thanks.

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By Lemuel 2006-12-23 12:58:47

Hi,I experience palpitation every time I think someone who is dear to me. Are we having some sort of mental telepathy while trying to connect our thoughts? Can please enlighten me?

By Nerissa 2007-01-02 12:17:14

Can I use mental telepathy to find out if my husband wants to leave us for another woman?

By Admin 2007-01-02 12:19:39

Hi, Nerissa. Why not just sit down together, agree not to argue, and honestly express what's true for each of you, and compassionately listen to one another? There's no need for telepathy. If you don't trust in each other's integrity, I suggest you find a professional therapist and get to work on your relationship.

By Zohrra 2007-01-22 20:52:27

Hey there. I read this hoping for help on my quest to protect my girlfriend from the evil creatures that keep killing me and her in her nightmares. I want to know if telepathy can be used to help her. I promised I would do something to help protect her in her dreams. If telepathy won't help, then please tell me anything you know of that will help. I don't want to break a promise. I will feel so bad if I do, so please help.

By Admin 2007-01-22 20:54:26

Hi, Zohrra. The best thing that you and your girlfriend can do is take your attention off "evil" and place it on love. Certainly, your world is full of things upon which you can focus and let gratitude arise in your hearts. Send love to all, including "evil creatures," which are most likely representations of inner struggle, not outer attack.

By Mohini 2007-09-25 07:43:06

I have had a love affair for the past 5 yrs with Vikas. But before that I was forced by my best friend to say yes to the proposal of her friend, who was a chain smoker. But when I came to know this, I left him. I have had feelings for Vikas for the last eight years. He accepted me with my first affair. He said it was not your mistake. We continued, but one day his brother found out about us. He told Vikas that he must choose one. Vikas went along with what his brother wanted. Then after a year, Vikas came to say that he still loves me, but he can't marry me. I want you to teach me how to, through telepathy, make Vikas forever mine and convinced his brother to accept our marriage. Please help him. I still love him a lot.

By Diane 2007-11-19 18:48:39

I am curious as to your thoughts about telepathy between lovers and the connection as possible soul mates? I am 39 and I have been able to communicate with my current lover 24/7 for about a year and a half. I feel things more deeply with him. I have even communicated with him in his dreams causing him to dream about what I say I'm doing. At first I thought I was going crazy now its just like breathing. Have you read about anything like this in your studies? Thank you for your time.

By nizma 2008-01-08 17:58:49

I am deeply in love with this guy. And we are having a wonderful relationship for about five years. In these years I think I've had telepathy with him. Because we shared the same dream just last night. And on the day his brother was almost killed, I had a feeling that something was going to go wrong, and I told him that before the accident happened. He also dreamed of me crying when I was really crying. When he was going to surprise me, by coming to my homeland after many days, I knew it before. And when he broke his arm in an accident, I called him right away and asked if he had an accident.

By Anon 2008-01-24 08:31:26

Hi, when I met my last girlfriend, I found myself crying a lot and I didn't know why. I found her to be very nice and open, and she was keen to have a relationship with me. I thought she was very lovely and found that our time together was very nice and comfortable. But I found that over the 2 years I was with her, there was a feeling that something wasn't right. I'm still unclear as to why I had that feeling, because we got on well. Anyway, the crying never really stopped, and then I found this year that I had to get away. I just felt I had to part with her. I still don't know why. I found that the last few times I was with her, I felt her being a bit controlling. She got angry with me, because she said I seemed to think she was doing certain things or thinking certain things, and I didn't feel I was accusing her of anything just saying how it was coming across to me. Half a year later, I still feel connected to her, but am at a loss as to why I had to terminate the relationship. I just had a feeling.

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