Scorpio Traits and Characteristics Point to a Fiery Heart

Okay, then. I'm like a scorpio...and a girl. Pretty much all true, me thinks. Just thought I'd say that.

Mostly right, except for the part about being secretive. Sometimes others simply won't comprehend our words at the level we would like them too, so we just don't say anything.

I am also a Scorpio and my boyfriend and i have just broken up. He is Aquarius and i just want to know the compatibility with the two. If the two signs are compatible, what is the best way to i guess bond with each other without killing each other...

Hi, Ashley. As you probably know, there's a lot more to compatibility between two people than simply the position of their Sun Signs relative to each other. Many other factors come into play, especially the position of the Rising Sign, Sun, Venus, Mars, Mercury...plus the other planets, sings, houses, aspects, etc. That said, ask yourself how your watery-emotional (Scorpio) can connect with his airy-mental (Aquarius). Odds are, you enjoy deep conversations and connection at the emotional level. You want to transform yourself and others. Odds are, he enjoys talking about ideas, inventions, innovation, technology. He wants to create and build. These are only partial generalizations, of course, and there are always exceptions. See if you can find common ground about what's most important to each of you.

Scorpio here, I'm not very secretive I grew out of it. I was so silent about my personal life as a child, now I'm loud to friends. But hey, maybe I wasn't meant to be a Scorpio. (I'd love to be a man, for sure, though.)

I'm a Scorpio and I do not have sexual magnetism. If I did, I think I would be going out with someone, but other than that its mostly true apart from the party thing. I never borrow someone's dress. I mean, it has their skin cells on it. I mean I would have someone's skin on me.

I'm a Scorpio. It's pretty much all true. The secretive part. No one else would say I'm secretive. I know I am. And I know exactly what to say to get what reaction I want. I'm not really out to hurt anybody. But I know what people want and what they respond to. No one knows me, though they claim to. I'm an avid writer, which agrees with my word smith and secrecy. And yes, I always check. You never know who you'll end up falling for in the end. But I wouldn't screw you out of anything at a party. I'm a nice guy.

Funny..."Scorpio" talking - I dated a Cancer and he was a jerk! I am with an Aries now and we are very happy together...which goes to show, I don't really regard those things with much belief.

Scorpio here. Well, I think everything is true but one. I dated a Cancer, too, and he was a loser. We went out like three times. For some reason Cancers and me don't get along. Most times I've noticed that.

I'm Scorpio. I born 25 October and I like to get along with people and I never met another Scorpio female in my life. That's why I'm wondering about it. Weird with everything at my school life is that even girls are hitting on me and it's not something to be proud of. But anyway, I have boyfriend and he's a Scorpio too and we get along very well. For me, it's not easy to make friends in my area and I think it has to be parts of my sign but I just have some friends I trust. I think that to understand Scorpio has to do with feelings and trust. Cause a scorpion is very dangerous. It can kill anything or anyone if something goes wrong. Peace, Rachy

I am a Scorpio born on the 31st, and my name is "Nishant",and my girlfriend is a Libra. Can I think about a long time relationship with her, because so far we are getting along well. She has become very compromising and patient. I am also aware that our compatibility rate is very low. I get attracted to many girls but I am not taking initiative,and I don't know why? I am not even commitment to her and she is very insecure about that. I am not afraid of loosing her but I don't know whether I will be able to face the consequences. Therefore, I've stopped thinking about it. I mean I have no clarity in my thoughts

I am a Scorpion by sun sign. I have a problem with the number 13. It seems to be everywhere I go. When I look at my watch it seems to have 13 on it, like 1:13pm etc., also when I finish speaking on the cell phone I will have spoken for 3 minutes 13 seconds. I am from Bangladesh. There are many examples like this. There is a Proverb about the unlucky number 13. I need your astrological help. Thanks.

Annette, the second person to comment on your response, it is so completely true. It made me smile. But I must admit being secretive kind of amuses me. It's also hard when you want to speak and your vocal chords stop working. I can yell about nothing, but I can't even whisper what has meaning.

I guess all the Scorpio traits describe above are true. Being an ascendant of Scorpio, I can attest that Scorpians are more inclined to secrecy. I find it easier not to share my thoughts with other people. I am afraid that they might not understand me or mis-interpret what I am trying to convey. I also love playing that poker face game, especially when my friends are trying to read my thoughts.

I'm a Scorpio dating a Cancer and really considering not seeing him again. I'm very interested in dating another Scorpio.

Hey, my name is Maximus and I will be your Hero this afternoon. I was born on October 25th. I am a young male, and its the bomb being a Scorpion. My best mates are water signs because they are on the same level of emotion. I prefer meaningful conversations. Although I would rather party with a fiery sign, someone who can match my energy, or at least try. I have every Scorpio trait. I am confident, inquisitive, always asking what this or that is and how it works, magnetic, passionate, protective, cocky, and sometimes jealous. I am working on this jealousy stuff and its getting boring. We are misunderstood but that can be fixed. We are so passionate about everything we do. If you just back of a little and be patient and take your time choosing your words. We will understand. Our facial expressions are totally different to what we are thinking. That magnetism stuff comes naturally. Don't even try to put it on. It's just there thanks to Pluto, and here is how. We are assigned to our planets from having the same flow of energy as the planet. The planets energy has the same energy flow as the star sign. I find this a coincidence, Pluto being found not long ago and Scorpios traits being secretive and mysterious cool stuff.

Hello I am a Cancer my husband is a Scorpio we get on like a house on fire. We never argue and we give each other our space, but I do think that Cancer being a feminine sign doesn't do any justice to male Cancers. They do become a bit jerky. I am not Romantic. I am more practical, but I feel I am a true Cancer. I think for Cancer and Scorpio it changes person to person, but I also think Scorpio being a more male sign doesn't help female Scorpions. I know a lot of female scorpions and they are just a bit airy. They don't have much brains. I am not saying that for all, but I know quit a lot of them. The only Scorpion man I know is my husband, and he is very smart unlike the Scorpion woman. All the Scorpion woman I know tend to cheat a lot, unlike the men. Why is this?

Hey there. I'm a female Scorpio, and I'm extremely proud of it. I've read up a lot about Scorpio personalities, and something they always say is that we are "very secretive". Well, I just don't think that's the best way to put it. I'm very open with my close friends, and when people ask me questions, personal or not, I try to answer truthfully. Any secrecy we Scorpios have is more subtle. For instance, I'll share my opinion in a situation, but often in a vague way that doesn't show the details of my thoughts. My friends and lover know me well, but there's a layer of thought in my mind, and probably in most Scorpios' minds, which those people will never touch, know, or fathom. Even in coldness and distance, those thoughts are always there. So I think that Scorpios are better described as rivers that run deeper than they appear, or icebergs, where most of the mass is under the surface. Also, I am in a fantastic relationship with a Capricorn right now. They say we're the best match and I believe it. We really balance each other out, understand each other, and are equally passionate. I get a lot of male attention, but he really gets me.

It's true, we Scorpio females are naturally magnetic to all, male and female. We are proud signs, very loyal. Naturally suspicious, you have to be mature and know when to sustain from being jealous. We are naturally jealous as well. Why would anyone else look at someone else, because we care so much. That is if we give you the time of day. Our moments are precious. We like to lounge and be home bodies at times. Other times we are the people out that everyone is trying to talk to, dance with, or just be around. I talk as if everyone is just like me, but I am sure you are in some way. We Scorpios can feel what you feel, what you need. We can turn any situation into whatever direction we want. We can be selfish while acting selfless. Normally if we have to we can use people to get what we need or want, not in a bad way unless were hurt. If a Scorpio female is hurt. Just forget about it, it's all over for you. You don't exist any longer. This will make you feel inadequate, because you will never forget what it is to be loved by a Scorpio girl.

I am having trouble with being a Scorpio. I have become blunt and cold-hearted throughout my parents divorce, and I don't want to be like that. Recently I have found myself arguing with the people closest to me over stupid things. I don't hangout with my friends as much, and I am always working. I don't feel like I am getting anywhere in life, so I live my life day by day. I need some help and figured I might try this.

Hi Jon, This kind of break up is traumatic and will make many people react in a way that is similar to grieving over the death of a relative. Your response is quite normal and you are trying to deal with it in your own way and by not showing all of your emotions. You may need to be careful that you don't fall into a depressed state. It would be best to start gradually getting out more and look to friends that are positive. Don't stew in what has happened. Begin to enjoy life again.

Hi john, I think the best way is to find a good counselor who can listen to you and understand how you feel and help you through this. You can also try hypnotherapy which can help you change your attitude to many things in life.

My moon sign is Scorpio, and I can't tell you how much more I act like a Scorpio than my sun sign, Leo. I guess since I'm a woman and moon signs correlate more with emotion and feeling, this is why I portray more Scorpio characteristics than Leo. I find it very difficult to possess the two most passionate signs in the Zodiac in both my sun and moon sign. My perceptions on life constantly fluctuate between positive to negative, and I just wish I could find a happy medium with my emotions. There are some days when I love life to the fullest, and others I honestly wish some of the most horrible things upon my life and everything around me. I think that I am optimistic and gregarious while with close friends like a Leo, but like a Scorpio, I am extremely secretive and suspicious of people I don't know. It takes a great deal of time for me to warm up to people and I to them, but once we're close, the bond to me is almost eternal.

Every site I read says Scorpios and Aries aren't good. well, I am a Scorpio, and am very much like one in nearly all ways lol, and he's the thickheaded, stubborn Aries I always read about. We fight a lot, but I don't feel anyone else could be more perfect for me. Plus I dated a pieces, and we were supposed to be very compatible. It was the worst thing ever.

Hey, I'm a Scorpio and a teenage girl. I have recently met an Aries guy that I would like to date, but I just can't seem to do anything right. He has asked me out, but I said no. I am now in a state of mental turmoil. I can't open up enough to tell him how I feel, as I'm not completely sure myself, and I kinda think I blew my chance.

Hi Scorpio Teen, why not tell him you have reconsidered and would love to go out with him. The worst thing that can happen is he says no. You would be no worse off than you are now.

Hmmm interesting, I have never fallen for a Scorpio guy on first sight, never, though I do have an awful lot of Scorpio friends, I have a lot of the Scorpio traits and none of my supposable rising sign, and each time I check to see what my rising sign may be, I get something different, why? Can someone point me to a website that may give me the most accurate answer?

Hi, I am a female Scorpio with all the traits possible. The most negative ones we are known for, jealous and obsessive, are my biggest problem. The amount of friendships and relationships that have been ruined because of these traits is unbelievable. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to reduce or even eliminate these feelings? Does anyone have the same problems?

I want to know if two lovers who are talking about marriage and had a bad fight to where each doesn't want to even see the other's face, might be helped by using Reiki? I would like it to work so that they can have a normal talk. What are the chances of solving this issue with Reiki? What would the process be? How expensive would it be? What percent chance would it have of working?

I am a proud Scorpio woman. I am fun loving and like to chill indoors as well as out. I'm also somewhat secretive to an extent depending on what it is. For Example if I am seeing someone my closest friends or family may not even know right away, and I don't care about their approval or opinion. But because my privacy and intimate life is very personal and sacred to me. I believe that there are different types of Scorpios and many of us also go through the phases of all good and evil, and survivor and strong minded etc. I've personally gone through the phases and at my age of 19. I feel reincarnated from the previous years bad and good relationships etc. I was just thinking about how this person wrote that a Scorpio girl will barrow your best dress. I wouldn't do that. I would go to an expensive store and buy the prettiest dress wear it and then return it the next day. I am a generous and loving person. I just tend to be devious once in awhile.

I am a Scorpio girl who is married to a Taurus boy. I have been married for over 6 years, and he is the only man I have ever been with. I was OK with everything until I started my new job 8 months ago. I have had my doubts about my marriage for close to a year now, but I think I just didn't think about it too much. Anyhow, so I started this new job which is with this large firm with 64 people. There was one guy who always caught my attention, making a long story short, this man and I have a lot in common. We are both Scorpios. He is married as well with 2 small children. But I have to say that we have a strong chemistry and there is no doubt that there is physical attraction going on. But nothing has happened. We are like 2 peas in a pod. I can see right through him most of the times and he does the same thing with me. I just don't know what to do. I like him a lot, but I also know better. I am 28 and he is 38. I can tell he gets jealous when my husband is around. I just wish I knew exactly how he felt. Sometimes we go have drinks but it's more on the friendship basis then an affair. Nothing has happened between us as far as sexually, just a hug. I can use advise on this. Thank you very much.

I am a Scorpio girl. I also fall in love easily with people. I love people and I like to study people. I can adapt to any environment. And no matter what, girls either love or hate me, and the men want me. I never lead men on in ways of sexual comments only with sex appeal that runs naturally in my veins. I know I must have been born with it. I am very passionate about the spiritual stuff that no else cares about. I am very deep, and I try my hardest to explain myself to the unknowing simple minded souls. I don't really think that I am so secretive. I just don’t like to waste time talking to people about stuff that doesn't matter. I keep what doesn’t matter to myself. I am very revengeful when I get bullied around to much. I will only take so much. I one time became very angry with my husband and framed him to go to jail for 24 hours when he did nothing wrong. It was wrong of me but karma got me back. My husband of six years is a Gemini.

I would also agree that most of this is true. Guys tell me all the time that I am mysterious, and it's a constant guessing game with me. But I like not being predictable. I am controlling, confident, passionate and have sex appea, not verbal. I am always the one asking why and how. But I am also a bit cocky. And of course jealous. Although I am only 19, I have learned to control that side of me. It's really unattractive when we explode. I use to hold in my emotions and out of no where just explode. But I have learned to trust a little more. I hate it when I don't get my way. I am easily aggravated. I want a guy that gives me attention but not over the top. I like to be the one to look for him. It's complicated. I dated a cancer and that was the best relationship I had ever been in. We were alike in so many ways. We gave each other our space but when we were together it was like the rest of the world didn't exist. In my opinion cancers only come off as jerks because they are so brutally honest. They will point out your flaws and say things you don't want to hear. But personally that was what I mostly loved about him. We Scorpios are not always so appreciative. So when it actually takes us effort and time to get what we want we definitely appreciate it more. He and I are no longer together and honestly I don't know why. It's been a little over year since we broke up. I haven't found anyone like him. I compare every single guy him. Therefore, don't even give them a chance. I don't what to do that anymore.

That was a little harsh. Pretty much right. Aside from leaving my friend with no ride, your forgetting. Scorpios are very loyal.

I'm a Virgo woman dating a Scorpio man. We've been friends for four yrs., we have had friendly banters, great conversations etc. The last six months we have been more than friends, mind you his doing. Note: he states he has not been in relationship for 10 yrs. since his divorce. Dating has been a roller coaster of emotions. He tells me he wants to be a Christian Disciple and not get married but yet tells me I'm the best lover he has had. He says he values me and being in his life. I feel like I'm his play toy of sex, emotion, support and loyalty person. He says he would be extremely mad and jealous if I were to find someone else. Is this relationship a lost cause? Will it continue to be a roller-coaster? Is there a chance this would develop into marriage? Or am I being played a fool? Wanting to get off the roller-coaster.

I would like to add, too, that we have 12 planets in our chart and depending on where it all is, is how your personality will be molded more to. My daughter has 5 planets in Scorpio and she is the most loving, honest, loyal, dependable friend. She rocks, really! I'm a Scorpio and have three total placements in Scorpio. I do share similar traits, but I am not cocky, too secretive since I have Gemini for Mercury (sometimes talk too much). As for the woman who stated women (the ones's she knows) that are Scorpio are dumb or not as intelligent? I have not met one, yet, that isn't highly intelligent and has amazing common sense, but guess that's who I'm attracting.

I would like to say, I am a Scorpio and the details you give sound more like the types of "Scorpio's" you attracted vs. what they really are as a general. There is a hint of resentment on your part in there and I hope that your own "personal" experience with "my kind" doesn't give a person the wrong impression of us. I was always the loyal friend who never borrowed a thing and got left at the party or bar, as my friends went home with guys. To give you the benefit of the doubt, I have known many Scorpio women who are ruthless and selfish, but in the end loyal as long as you go along with them, but I realized early on it has nothing to do with signs, it has to do with their upbringing, along with many factors. I, personally, am so tired of people speaking down about Scorpio's. If someone is a narcissist, they are. If someone is attracting someone who treats them as you described, I would look at how you are attracting and stop allowing what someone else does as an excuse to hold resentments. I promise, we are not all as you describe.

I'm a Scorpio girl but many tell me I act nothing like one. That is usually the last sign they guess me to be. My best friend who studies astrology tells me I'm so innocent now, but when I'm older I'll be out of control. Is she right? I do keep many things to myself, and I don't even share my deepest secrets with my BFF.

I am a 45 year old Scorpio male. When I was growing up, I tried to dismiss this stereotyping but found that it was useless to resist. It is true that we are secretive, calculating and even ruthless at times. That stinger is a double edged blade as it can be used to destroy oneself when failure is so unbearable. Fortunately, we are also masters at rebuilding ourselves which underscores the Phoenix in all of us. It is unfortunate that we are ruled by our sexual desires but succumbing to that varies among us anyway. Nothing is subtle about a Scorpio, at least from my experience. I have been married for 18 years and not once have cheated on my spouse. I have had a lot of opportunities but the attraction alone is not enough for me. More recently, I have met this Sagittarius at work. She too is married and in the beginning some what flirted a little but backed-off because she knew that I was a Scorpio and that we generally work hard to try to get what we want. I enjoy talking with her and have developed this enormous crush on her, she is 9 years my junior. Let's say that we seem to have things in common. I have a 17 year old son. My wife who is an Aquarian have slowly drifted apart in the course of time. I do care for her but we have lost whatever it was we had in the beginning. I found this site and told myself what the hell, put it out there. That could be therapy in itself. I know that this is a problem that is not confined to Scorpios but again with Scorpios the intensity of emotions is truly magnified a hundred fold. It is very hard to deal with this because I truly want a connection with this person. This may sound weird even to you fellow Scorpios, but a thought of a simple kiss will make my heart race like a car engine turning to almost red line. BTW, I am a petrol head and love fast cars and motorcycles. I actually own a 600cc Yamaha and use that to commute to the office during the nice months. She has even invaded me in my dreams. Now that is messed-up. I hope that when I finally reinvent myself through the cycle of destruction and recreation, it won't be as painful this time around. I've been though this once before many a score ago. I highly doubt it though. I feel that I have been blessed as a Scorpio having all this intensity and reserves of inner strength and courage. However, I sometimes feel that it is also a curse because when I do fall for someone, it is like a volcano erupting inside me. Time is my only ally. Time always heals. Peace out to all you with the stingers.

Hi I am a Scorpio. I can honestly say that being everything stated above brings me great enjoyment in life. I find it fun to let people think they get to know me. Relationships are easier when you don't let people get fully inside, and you don't feel any kind of remorse for dumping somebody out of boredom. I have become able to completely ignore any unwanted emotions. I am very forward in my conversations, so forward in fact that people often get defensive, I find it funny how most people find me frightening but yet people still flock to me. I can inspire people and destroy people, and the best part is I don't have to do much work. There is only one person is this world that I have found so far that I can honestly say knows me that I open up to, this person is a Taurus. He is my best and only true friend. I share all my success with him. I tried having a relationship with another Scorpio, she ended up boring me more than the rest which really surprised me. I am currently in debate with myself if this in the long run is going to make me a cruel and evil person that has a serious power trip, the only reason that I am like how I am is because I had a life changing epiphany that drastically altered my opinion on how people are and how life is cruel and the only way to succeeded in a world such as this is to appear as detached as possible so people are intimidated, thus making it easy to rise the various levels of the jobs I acquire. In my own defense, I can say that I have not hurt anyone physically. I don't think I am capable of that. And to people that are wondering, I am 16 years old, and I am not bipolar or have any mental conditions. I just have a different mind set. I am the captain of the debate club at my school, and I have plans of becoming a lobbyist.

I'm a Scorpio with a Virgo rising. I love to be a Scorpio, because I really do act like one. I'm confident, passionate, sexy, emotional, and magnetic. I'm starting a new school next year and I'm already the most popular freshman. Boys there are desperate to date me, but I feel that most of them are just trying for the wrong reason, but I like only one, a Taurus guy. We met during this year's summer holidays. The first time he touched me, I felt that I met the right person. Is he true to me? Or does he just want to toy with me and ditch me when he gets tired of me?

I am a Scorpio woman with a Gemini man for nine months now. I don't think he's the typical Gemini type though because he said he cannot live without me. He misses me very much when I'm not around. He said I am his true love, and he's extremely lucky to have me. We even want to marry in June,2009. I know that we may be astrologically incompatible but that's not a problem. Why couldn't we both fall in love with a more astrologically compatible person? My advice is never get carried away too much with astrology. Let God take control. He specializes in the impossible.

Hi Ray, I have a question for you. As a Scorpio man would you all of the sudden start ignoring this girl you work with. I have this dilemma myself. It was very strong connection for a long time a nice warm relationship, nothing sexual but a lot of flirting but all of the sudden this man started to ignore me to a point, I think he actually hates me. I haven't done anything wrong that I know of. I thought he was my friend and now I think I was just being an idiot for thinking that. Maybe all he wanted was to get into my pants and he realized that I respect his family and then just backed off and now is totally ignoring me. I can still see him stare at me from a distance but when we are close he is ice cold. Any suggestions would be appreciated.

Scorpio are misunderstood to have secretive, cold, traits or what have you. The truth is they don't, they just have a finer sense of self righteousness. They seem bitter because of all the years of biting their tongues from the rejection of society because of their clairvoyant outlook among their peers. It's a shame that one person has to dumb things down so many times to have a fairly descent conversation with the average person, wouldn't you agree, and if you've been doing that your whole life, wouldn't you feel a bit lonely? And doesn't loneliness breed that extra strength to be and independent? That's where that righteousness come from, and sometimes, bitterness. On the flip side, you do have the few that fold and pretty much stay quiet. They're not cold people unless you consider the variable of their upbringing, it's not in their nature. As far as compatibility, everybody is fair game except for the Gemini because of their lack of depth. While the Scorpio are contemplating about their next revelation, the Gemini are ready for the next party. Communication and interest are the main tips to keep a Scorpio on lock down, I'll tell you one thing, they can be very jaded creatures, and again, it's not because they're "cold" but these people define freedom and revolution, they beat to their own drums. I can answer ANY questions or inquiries involving any relationship or anything about a Scorpio; maybe you need help maintaining a relationship, or want to start one, trust me, I know what I'm talking about, I've been one for 19 years and I never doubted my senses.

Hi Professional Scorpio, maybe you have an answer for me, I don't know if you've read my postings but if you get a chance please do and tell me what I might have done wrong. I lost a person who I thought was my friend and I feel really sad about it.

I'm a Scorpio girl, and yeah, I'll be honest, this topic is completely describing me. I'm proud to be a Scorpio, but sometimes I wish people wouldn't only see them as jealous, stubborn, obsessive, and so on. Okay, so I am, but we are loyal, truthful, caring, and goal driven. Keep stating the truth, I'm just saying maybe some people could also look towards the light more about us. But no matter if they change or not, neither will I, and I'll always be the same proud girl I am. ;D

Scorpio here. I was born on October 31st. I'm currently dating a Pisces, born on March 3rd. I've been on the search for happiness for a long time. This girl I'm dating now, she's got me crazy for her, and at times she shows and says the same thing, yet, other times she's indifferent? She gets me so confused. She's asked for patience on my part, many a times and I offer her just that. My question is what would the compatibility be between a Scorpio and a Pisces?

Scorpios are also very spiritual, kind, giving thoughtful, romantic people. They can adapt to any situation, chameleon, secretive, is more in the head than in physical actions, devoted, loyal, witty, humorous, and satisfying in bed with their partner ask any ex. Intimacy is a gift learned through self awareness and trust, sex and passion would sum it up the other side. Revenge or the sting well good living is the best revenge for a Scorpio, and a sixth sense of better days ahead.

OK, I'm a Scorpio and well, not everything this thing says is true. I'm mean I'm not secretive at all. And the worst sign is not Aries and Scorpio. They are suppose to be pretty good together. The worst is Aquarius and Scorpio. And gambling, what in the world? Were not into gambling. My aunt is also a Scorpio and she isn't addicted to that, anybody can be. It doesn't matter what your sign is. I'm very hyper and outgoing with everyone I meet. Well when I was in about grade four and under, I was very shy but after that I was very outgoing.

My sign is Aquarius but my ascendant and moon signs are both of Scorpio. It's strange because my moms a Scorpio. Could it be inherited? I think I have both personality traits of Aquarius and Scorpio. I have a quick response to situations and am intense.

I'm an Aquarian woman now engaged to a Scorpio man, been together 7 months so far. Dated a few Scorpio males before but was nothing more than that, just casual dates where things just kinda fizzled out for no apparent reason. We've really gone through some tough times together so far, due to the fact that there's a 17 year age gap and my family haven't been able to accept it, but he's stuck by me. He is my soul mate, we've both said that, feel so together, and there have been times where we've both said the same thing at the same time, as if we're tuned into each other. I do find him secretive though and that really gets to me. Being the open and sometimes too honest Aquarian that I am, plus the age gap, I suppose I do feel insecure sometimes and question his motives when he suddenly jumps up from the PC when he sees me approaching (leaving me thinking what he is doing/who's he talking to?) Logged into his page one day quite by accident as he forgot to log out and noticed he'd been communicating with a 24 yr old woman with a naked picture on show, as the message was all Re re re's. When I asked him about it and blew my top he denied it of course, he'd even deleted his sent mails so I couldn't see what he'd been saying. It's the secretiveness of him that makes me suspicious most times. Love him to bits, we got engaged on my birthday and he can be romantic when he wants to be. We do have good conversations and share much of the same interests. I just want to know if he's as loyal as the Aquarian in me. We've both been hurt in the past by ex's, his last being an Aries, who he admits broke his heart, and even though he doesn't tell me, I know he still burns a candle for her, even if they have been broke up for 2 years now. I am very trusting as a person (my birthdays 17th Feb so I'm on the Aqua or Pisces cusp) I get scared sometimes as I feel as if my constant questioning on his sneaky ways on the PC and other things plus the sudden arguing lately is going to slowly drive him away. We had a major row the other eve thanks to him going for drinks with friends from work and him being home later than usual. Don't begrudge him having a social life at all I'm not a possessive person, I'm just having a few health issues at the moment and I'm needing him a bit more, and he actually cried in my arms saying he loved me and didn't want to leave. So he has got quite an open emotional side when he wants. Sometimes though I don't feel the love. Some days he makes me feel like a Queen, and then other days I just don't feel it as much, as if he's disconnected from me. If there's any other Aqua female Scorpio male people who could shed some light on our relationship and future I'd be fascinated to her about it + where I can improve on things where I've been going wrong. Know he doesn't like nagging (which I don't do anyway) I'm quite open to whatever whenever. The other night when he was late in, he said that he felt suffocated because of how I was being and that's kinda stayed in my head. He was a bit of a loose cannon before he met me, out partying all the time, now he's living a settled homely life, and I do sometimes wonder if he misses his single life and the freedom that he had last year. Although he says that he's ready for settling down now and he wants to do those night out things with me. Most of what I've read about the Scorpio traits are typical of him. Think I just need to know if he's going to stay loyal really.

I'm a Scorpio and I completely agree. Maybe not with the gambling part because, I don't believe in wasting money on something that has such a low chance of having a good outcome. I'm proud to be a Scorpio. I've always found it easy to adapt to whoever I am with, which makes it easy for me to say what is necessary to get what I want. A bad trait, probably, but only when used to wrong way.

Everything is right on my part. The only weird part is how I was in a year in a half relationship with an Aries. But I'm in the same kind with a Cancer, and he is the love of my life. Only though, sometimes, I just wish he could read my mind, well not all of it, just enough, because strangely he is the only one I want to let in. But, it's all cool. I love being a Scorpio. It's awesome.

Just came across this website and the posts made me laugh and in a way understand me a bit better. I have been beating myself up last few months because of the fact that I cannot keep a relationship with a man and when it comes to gal friends, I only have two friends who I am only close to on the surface. My best friend is me. Sometimes I think I should go out and make fiends but the truth is I don't want to. What people see is a bubbly friendly party animal but if only they knew. Men are attracted to me like flies and women either love me or hate me. I have been described by both males and females as being disconnected and someone went as far as calling me a cold hearted b**ch. This stung, as it is not true. I have feelings like everyone else but find it hard to say what I feel or show my emotions. I can be very jealous and clingy which is one of the reasons I choose to be single a to me that is a sign of weakness. I am looking to get more from my life, loosen up a bit, let people in and just live a full life. If there is anyone there who 'feels' me and has done it I would appreciate the advice.

This is funny I am a Gemini been my son is an Scorpio and my boyfriend of 7 years is one as well, sad to say I love them both to death my son and I don’t get along at all unless he is getting his way he is very, very defiant there is nothing he doesn’t have as a 16yr old child he lies, brakes into my room and goes through my things. My boyfriend and I have major trust issues because he cheated on me and got a girl pregnant with twins. And I did not find out about it until they were almost one year old. So you want to talk about sneaky, liars, vindictive. I am sorry but these two have proved to me that yes they are yes indeed stingers.

I am a female Scorpio and for the most part I agree with all of the personality traits of the Scorpio. However I think many of them change with maturity and self control, it frustrates me because, I do seem to be very self critical and I know that can be a problem with the Scorpio. I also refuse to accept anyone's compliments because I look for ulterior motives from the people who are giving them. How can I work on being a better person without beating myself up to often? Also I am head over heals with this guy who is an Aries. Is our romance doomed?

I agree with Amy H. I am also a Scorpio and have very few female friends. I have no problem making male friends. I just can't seem to get this relationship thing right. I was married to a Cancer for 5 years and after 4 years of being divorced we tried to make a go at it again, but it just turned into resentment on my part. I then got with a Sagittarius for 4 years. How it lasted 4 years, I don't know that was quite an emotional roller coaster. I have recently met a Scorpio man. We are sexually compatible and have good conversation but that's where it ends. I can't seem to read him. He will text me and tell me that he misses me but then he says he is not ready for a relationship. My first love was a Scorpio, and we lasted for 15 years until he went to jail. Could it be because This is a November Scorpio like me and the other Scorpio was a October Scorpio? Do you think this has anything to do with it?

I am a Scorpio and I am not secretive and I don't believe that the majority of us are. We just like to keep our business to ourselves especially when it's personal. Especially if it's a problem. We like to let it marinate in our head until we come up with a solution and then and only then will we share it. We are not keen on accepting advice because few people can really understand our deep minds so their advice is pointless.

I'm a Scorpio male, and I think most of that is right. And as for the secretive, I don't know about others but honestly I would have checked "maybe" on that card if I ever got one. Well the secretive nature suites me. Some of my closest friends have noticed this.

Most things written about Scorpios I find very true to myself. I am a Scorpio man and we are not really secretive just when something is personal we keep it to ourselves until we understand it. We do not want any others seeing a weakness. But when we are ready to let loose watch out.