Love and Aquarians: The Libra Woman and Aquarius Man

January 21st to February 19th is home to the water barrier, sometimes called water carrier, the Aquarius sign. The Greek God Zeus was the first water bearer, pouring the life supporting waters from the heavens to the earth in the beginning of time.

Aquarians tend to isolate, and because of this they seem to be frequently passed over at their place of employment for promotions. They are also the most likely sign to be accused of anti-social or dual personality disorders–more so even than Gemini–their dry sense of humor seems incongruent with their actions. But far from anti-social, an Aquarian will not only take your side but actively stick up for your rights-provided they have concrete evidence that you are right. They are also inventive, original, and emotionally unattached. They will stick up for you because it's right, not because they are passionate about the cause. Ironically, both Charles Darwin and Oral Roberts were Aquarians. It might also be important to note that they tend to become sick easily and frequently, the underlying cause is suppressing emotions to the extent that the energy must be spent somewhere, and the mind will take it out on the body. This lack of emotion will cause problems in a water bearer's love life as well, because they find it difficult to say how they feel. Often this is mistaken for apathy in a relationship. They are also way too judgmental with regards to meeting new people, often jumping to an opinion about them before getting the whole story.

In matters of love, let's examine Aquarius' compatibility with Taurus. The Aquarius is simply too unpredictable for the methodical Taurus and the arguments will be many and varied. If a situation has anything worth arguing about in it, make room for these two, because dishes could fly! Libra is a much better choice if you are looking for an air sign to match up with your Aquarian. In fact, a Libra woman and Aquarius man have a chance at a happy and long lasting marriage. They both enjoy society functions and people in general, and make a great pair at a charity function. Aquarius will occasionally seek seclusion, and the Libra likes harmony too much to badger about why they want to be left alone sometimes. Aquarius and Libra are the most compatible for each other according to astrology.

The big hurdle spiritually for the Aquarius sign to overcome is that they spend too much time dreaming-or planning- for future projects and even more time dwelling on the past which causes excessive loneliness and lack of action today. Lighten up.