Love and Aquarians: The Libra Woman and Aquarius Man

January 21st to February 19th is home to the water barrier, sometimes called water carrier, the Aquarius sign. The Greek God Zeus was the first water bearer, pouring the life supporting waters from the heavens to the earth in the beginning of time.

Aquarians tend to isolate, and because of this they seem to be frequently passed over at their place of employment for promotions. They are also the most likely sign to be accused to anti-social or dual personality disorders-more so even than Gemini-their dry sense of humor seems incongruent with their actions. But far from anti-social, an Aquarian will not only take your side but actively stick up for your rights-provided they have concrete evidence that you are right. They are also inventive, original, and emotionally unattached. They will stick up for you because it's right, not because they are passionate about the cause. Ironically, both Charles Darwin and Oral Roberts were Aquarians. It might also be important to note that they tend to become sick easily and frequently, the underlying cause is suppressing emotions to the extent that the energy must be spent somewhere, and the mind will take it out on the body. This lack of emotion will cause problems in a water bearer's love life as well, because they find it difficult to say how they feel. Often this is mistaken for apathy in a relationship. They are also way too judgmental with regards to meeting new people, often jumping to an opinion about them before getting the whole story.

In matters of love, let's examine Aquarius' compatibility with Taurus. The Aquarius is simply too unpredictable for the methodical Taurus and the arguments will be many and varied. If a situation has anything worth arguing about in it, make room for these two, because dishes could fly! Libra is a much better choice if you are looking for an air sign to match up with your Aquarian. In fact, a Libra woman and Aquarius man have a chance at a happy and long lasting marriage. They both enjoy society functions and people in general, and make a great pair at a charity function. Aquarius will occasionally seek seclusion, and the Libra likes harmony too much to badger about why they want to be left alone sometimes. Aquarius and Libra are the most compatible for each other according to astrology.

The big hurdle spiritually for the Aquarius sign to overcome is that they spend too much time dreaming-or planning- for future projects and even more time dwelling on the past which causes excessive loneliness and lack of action today. Lighten up.

 

 

 

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By Stephanie
2006-10-31 19:01:17
 

I just cannot believe how accurate the horoscope was about me. It was like a smack in the face to wake up. Thank You.

 
By Sarah
2006-12-14 15:54:11
 

Finally, a compatibility that I haven't seen elsewhere on the internet! Accurate too.

 
By Mitchell
2007-03-19 15:42:13
 

This was very accurate, as some others I've read. I enjoyed reading it.

 
By ashley
2007-11-23 16:02:57
 

This is completely accurate. My father was born on February 8th, my mother was born on February 9th, and my sister was born February 10th. As for me, I'm a Sagittarius born on November 25th. It frustrates me to the fullest when they judge every person they see. It's like jeez, you don't even know what they're going through and you judge them like that. Also, they always think they're right even if they're not. No offense to Aquarius' out there but this is just my experience.

 
By Donna
2008-06-05 17:34:31
 

Hi, I too think you are incredibly accurate. I am a Libra and in love with an Aquarian man. However, I never get the chance to see him and whilst it would infuriate most "normal" people, it does not affect me in the same way. I know he loves his independence and to be honest, I probably give him way more space than I should, but I love my independence too and so we tend to have an "independent together" type of relationship. We are best friends and he is the most amazing lover. He says the same of me which is fabulous, and I cannot imagine my life without him. Even when we are apart we have the greatest bond. Don't get me wrong, he is incredibly gorgeous inside and out and everyone, especially the ladies, love him. But I know he loves me and no matter whether we are together or not, I simply have no problems loving him at a distance or close up. Some might think Aquarians are distant, cold and can be unfaithful but on the whole I think they like their own space at times just like I do and I am a Libra. He is cool as opposed to cold like me, and will only be unfaithful if not totally happy with the person he or she is with. It sounds like a cop out, but we can be incredibly faithful for the right person, for ourselves and for our personality. He is an absolute dream, and I am the luckiest girl in the world to even know him. Can anyone else agree?

 
By Linda
2008-09-16 18:21:47
 

Absolutely, I agree with you one hundred percent, Donna. I'm a Libra, like you, and I think I'm falling in love with my Aquarius man. I've never met anyone like him. He's intelligent, funny in his own weird way, and gives me a feeling that I've never felt before. We have an incredible connection. And oh, did I mention that we were best friends while we were kids but lost contact and met up again on the net after 15 years? Did I also mention that he lives in a different continent altogether, and we haven't seen each other face to face in all these yrs? And yet, I feel a strange kind of bond with him. He makes my heart fill up with good, good vibes that I just can't resist.

 
By Jolene
2009-03-02 21:02:54
 

I have been with an Aquarius man for 6 years off and on, he has been unfaithful, he is rude to me, and has been diagnosed with personality disorders. I am not one to judge. I would of thought that he would be the one I'm least compatible with, however it says he is the most! I find this strange.

 
By Janice
2009-04-05 19:05:34
 

I'm a Libra woman and have been dating an Aquarius for about two yrs now. For the first few months, our relationship was a bit shaky. We argued because I found out that he was seeing other woman. But sooner later, he admitted his mistake, and now our chemistry has gotten even stronger with each passing day, and I've never been this close to anyone before. We're able to read each others mind pretty well. We gave each other the freedom we need, and often by the end of the day, we're always back together being as lovable as ever again.

 
By Krissy
2009-05-04 19:40:55
 

This is accurate. Most Libra women will fall for or feel a great attraction towards an Aquarius man at least once in their life. And most Aquarius men are commonly enthralled either by the Libra or Scorpion woman. I'm a Libra woman. When it comes down to it, I personally think that an Aquarius and Libra are the best match intellectually and more often than not physically.

 
By Paul
2009-05-05 18:54:23
 

Wow, this describes me down to the last letter. From my quiet nature to me being madly in love with a Libra, Ms.J.B. It's good to see something that is accurate.

 
By Chris
2009-06-02 19:56:45
 

I too am a Libra woman and have been in a 3 yr relationship with an Aquarius Man. This relationship was very strong intellectually and physically, but I noticed that Aquarius men will put their friends, their family, and any new person they meet before you. Also, as much as I love my man, I have to admit, these Aquarius men have loyalty issues. They will turn on you in less than 10 seconds, and they are very skilled liars. They tell half truths. When they are angry with you they will say vicious things about you to their friends and they can hold a grudge for eons. It's OK for them to hurt you, but if you hurt them look out. Also, they cheat, and then lie about it. They have lots of female "friends" that they always see as potential hook ups, so beware. Especially if that female is a Libra, because she will hook up in less than 30 seconds.

 
By Sophia
2009-06-18 19:18:12
 

I'm a Libra woman who deeply loves an Aquarius man. We dated about 20 years ago, although it was very brief. We never made love, because we wanted to wait. But we broke up before it happened. There was always something special about him. Twenty years later, we were reunited, but he and I both had issues from past relationships. His mother has always believed that he and I would be together. When we reunited, it took a bit to get him to open up to me, but when he did, it was like fire upon fire. We seemed to have a supernatural connection that neither of us had ever known. Our communication was an unspoken one, where he knew my thoughts and I knew his. I could literally feel his presence and he felt mine. He could ignite the depths of my soul. Our relationship is long distance and we've still not even touched. He soon began to clam up and ceased all communication with me. It drove me crazy. This felt so unstable to me. When I pushed him, he became even more isolated. Once I let it go, after a while, he contacted me as if nothing happened. I, however, felt abandoned. it wasn't that easy for me to just let it go. Over the course of five years, it was on and off. Now, he wants me to contact him, but I will not because I like things to be stable. Yet, I still passionately love and want him, but I need something more predictable. He says that he sill loves me and will not give up on us. That's so Aquarius of him.

 
By Kalu
2009-06-23 19:35:21
 

I am a Libra women who was interested in an Aquarius man. It was really crazy because we hit it off right as soon as we locked eyes on each other and started talking, but long story short we dated and after a month and a half he was interested in a sexual relationship which I was not ready for. In addition, he was always missing which made me think since we where not having sex maybe he was getting it from else where. He always said that it was not true. It didn't bother me. He was always gone, but after we parted ways it made me think it was it me. I don't know we have not talked. Actually we never officially ended our relationship. I have not called him, and he has not called me after a text we had about when we where going to see each other again. I liked him a lot and we just clicked. I don't know if I will find that again. Hopefully God will send someone my way who is willing to wait until I'm ready. Dating for me has been hard, and I think I am a very attractive women with a solid future and a great heart. I don't know why I keep flunking out in the love department?

 
By Dee
2009-06-30 19:29:04
 

Hi Kalu, maybe the right person has not yet shown up. You will know when the time is right for you.

 
By Aventurine
2009-07-11 19:52:12
 

I'm a Libra girl, and I have an insane crush on a Aquarius guy. I'm quiet, nice and calm, and do not open up easily. However, on the inside I'm very emotional and passionate, and my outgoing, and slightly weird but fun-loving nature really comes out with my few very good friends. So this is the thing, he's been so nice to me from the start and often wants to know more about me. He compliments me often too. However, he acts kind of flirty with other girls. At one moment he's dying to know more about me, the other he's completely ignoring me. I'm so confused. Can someone give me some advice?

 
By Heart Crushed Taurus
2009-07-27 20:47:46
 

I am a Taurus woman and have been dating an Aquarius man for about five months. I am so confused, when we first met it was like love at first sight. We shared the same interest, goals, and we both are outgoing and love to have fun with friends and family. I could not understand why he would put friends before me in our relationship. He says that I am too demanding, but I just don't see it. I just ask that he respects me. Although I don't sense any infidelity, he would always ask me if I was talking to someone else, and I would in return ask him the same question. He went from telling me that I was the best thing to ever happen to him one week to now telling me that our relationship is not going to work. I really love him and want to be with him. I don't feel I have done anything wrong. Looking for an Aquarius man to give me some insight on why did he just shut down all of a sudden, and how can I win his heart back.

 
By La La Libra
2009-08-07 19:59:42
 

I am a Libra woman involved with an Aquarius Man. To make a long story short we've been seeing each other for about a year with a "break" somewhere in there and we are currently on our second break as he needs to sort some things out on his own. However in spite of him saying we need to just be friends, he keeps coming back to me as "more than friends." Maybe he only wants sex? We are really good together. That's one of my faves about us. The other night while we were lying in bed together he said he was used to me and, as a joke, he said if he ever did start dating someone he would have to call me to come over during the intimate moments. Lots of Love I said. It's not a bad thing to be "used to someone." What did he mean by that comment? I'd say he's not over me, but who knows with Aquarius. The second thing is I am trying to be stronger with my boundaries with him because he likes to see how far he can go with me and in the past I've let him do almost whatever he wanted, which I think wasn't too good on my side. I think it's good to have boundaries with anyone, but will enforcing my boundaries too hard push him away?

 
By Dee
2009-08-17 19:00:31
 

Hi La La, what are the sense of boundaries if you intend to doubt them and then discard them.

 
By La La Libra
2009-08-18 19:01:03
 

Dee, you have a point. I know I need to have strong boundaries but at the same time I don't want to push this guy away. But ya know what, thinking about it, would I want to be with a guy who doesn't respect my boundaries? My intent is not to discard them. And you're right, I need to be confident in my boundaries and in myself. Thanks!

 
By Nikki
2009-08-22 20:39:24
 

I am a Libra woman who's been involved with two Aquarius men. I love them. We are perfect. The thing is, we're not boyfriend and girlfriend. We share a bond that is like no other. We're definitely feeling each other on a very high mental level. Physically, things have been great. Meeting these men has made me always feel like I have just ran into my best friend. We can see each other everyday, or not see each other for months, or even years, but when we do, its all good. They say absence makes the heart grow fonder and the love that I have for these two men, and their shared love for me, its unexplainable. We have a great love for each other and our friendships are like those of one of my best girlfriends. We are so tight. Aquarius men are big flirts. Flirt with everybody. He'll flirt right in front of me and turn around and tell me he loves me. He's not going to do anything with the woman he just flirted with, and when its all said and done we're leaving together. I can flirt in front of him/them, and they're okay with that, as I am, because we have an understanding with each other, and though unspoken, no words are needed most times, we have a genuine love for one another, and we will always be friends. Both Aquarius men I have known for 20 years. Our love for one another will never die. No matter if we're in relationships with other people. Friends, if not more for life.

 
By Chained Down Aquarius
2009-10-05 20:02:24
 

Dear Heart Crushed Taurus, I am an Aquarius man and have dated a hard-headed Taurus for over a year now. I love her with all my heart, but I can't wait for the days and hours when she's away from our apartment. Aquarians need space. It's nothing personal, whatsoever, yet Taurus just can't seem to understand. It's as if it's an impossibility. I have actually lost 6 of 8 of my friendships, I had intact for 10-15 years before my Taurus came along. Her demands are so high of me. My friends have become jealous and distant not recognizing the person they've come to know over all these years. I'm heartbroken over it, but I know it's part of my path of spiritual growth. You just have to understand, your Aquarius loves you. But if the more you push him in any sort of way, you are just pushing him away in equal measure. Good luck to you.  

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