Man and Women Traits: The Nature of Scorpio

Scorpio is a water sign, co-ruled by Mars and Planet Pluto and is at home in the 8th house. Known for its powerful will and deep feelings, natives of this sign are capable of frightening more innocent zodiacal signs. Scorpios are the sophisticates of the zodiac, they've been around the block more than once and may make you feel that they were born knowing more about the underside of life than you do. They do.

The Scorpio traits of women and men is to have to know more because they're going to feel more. This isn't necessarily a matter of empathy, though that can enter into it. This is more of the nature of sensing emotions like knife cuts, sharp and penetrating. They have to know and understand more about life since it is just too painful to be ignorant.

Astrology neophytes will look at the sign of Scorpio, nudge you in the ribs and chuckle knowingly, perhaps with a little eyebrow action. Yes, Scorpio is known for its passionate nature. What is less fully known or understood, is the enormous effort that Scorpio must put in to achieve fulfillment or satisfaction. Anyone who has had an intimate relationship with a Scorpio is aware of the intense concentration required for them to achieve a sense of release. This is associated with their grasping, possessive qualities, and issues with letting go. In order to fully relax, one must be able to let go. This can't happen if one is holding onto their emotional control so very tightly.

Scorpio holds itself very tightly as well. Our world is not really set up to easily experience the intensity of Scorpionic passions. We are embarrassed by the passions of raw emotion, seething and swirling with illogic. In a more enlightened world, Scorpios would probably be able to express themselves with a great deal more ease. Additionally, Scorpio feels that it cannot safely trust the environment, since to do so would make it even more vulnerable.

Very often the Scorpio women traits finds themselves often alone and lonely. This is due to the fact that it often needs to test those who would get close. The closer you want to be to a Scorpio, the more tests you will have to pass. It is very unlikely that you'll be informed what the tests are or what the correct answers may be. When allowed in to the Scorpio sacred space however, you'll find a richness of personality, a depth of perception and a warmth of compassion which is unmatched elsewhere in the zodiac.

 

 

 

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By Lindsay Blair
2007-05-04 19:50:28
 

Scorpios are very in touch with the passions and beautiful things in life. I found this page was true regarding that, but there is so much more to say for the traits of Scorpio. Being a Scorpio, I appreciated reading this, though.

 
By Angela Green
2007-05-28 00:22:10
 

I enjoyed this article very much. The part about it taking a lot to achieve a sense of release is so true! This is the first article I've read that states that!

 
By Midnight
2007-06-16 19:36:22
 

That last paragraph really hit a nerve... "Very often the Scorpio women traits finds themselves often alone and lonely..." Wow, that about sums up my entire personality right there. How did they know that?

 
By Michelle
2007-11-04 14:31:14
 

Midnight, I agree with you. I find myself alone and lonely sometimes, and I completely test those who want to get close. But I would rather be alone than with someone for the wrong reason or because society says we should.

 
By Pankaj P.
2008-04-21 08:07:19
 

Scorpions are bold by heart, and I would say they are decision. They never wait or depend on others to take action. They can simply change or redefine any rule of this world. Don't deceive them or one day they could grab you without warning.

 
By Sira
2008-07-27 18:56:42
 

I totally agree. I don't let people get close to me easily and as Michelle said, I would rather have no friends then have meaningless and shallow friendships. I don't trust people in general and follow my instincts at all times. I also don't believe in doing things or appearing to be a certain way for other people's approval. I can't be anyone else but me.

 
By Deb
2008-07-27 19:26:46
 

Hi Sira, I think that the qualities you mentioned are great to have and should be regarded as an asset.

 
By Another Deb
2008-10-24 18:56:20
 

Sira, I agree with you and Deb. I feel the same as you. I have few friends, but they are great ones, and fantastic people. I can look back and see that it is true, they did kind of work hard to be my friend, until I could 'let them in', and I'm glad they hung in there with me. I think I don't make friends easily because I am not willing to do or appear a certain way just to fit in, I hate that. I am me. That means I spend a good deal of time alone, but that is OK, I'm comfortable with who I am. And what Sira said, these are good qualities, and should be considered an asset. But I don't think they necessarily are seen by others as 'assets'. To others we may appear aloof or unfriendly, and therefore not respected. But that may not be the case at all. We are just taking it all in, at least that is how it is for me. I have had more than a few friends tell me that when they first met me they thought I was snobby or unfriendly, and it couldn't be further from the truth. They got to know me and found out that is so not true. Thank goodness for good friends who look beyond the surface.

 
By Sadia
2008-10-31 08:16:28
 

Hi Sira, couldn't have stated these facts better. The Scorpio woman will not tolerate nor pretend, very perceptive and also has very few but true and loyal friends. Once a Scorpio women senses someone stepping on her toes, she immediately discards that person and has no regrets thereafter. Feeling lonely and alone, it happens to me almost all the time. Thank you Sira for hitting the nail on the head.

 
By William S.
2009-04-21 20:40:04
 

I know this is an old topic but I have seen exactly what I am looking for. I always felt my wife wanted me to kiss her backside in order to be close to her. I am a Turin and we are in fact in almost all ways opposite, but my patience and our determination for our kids future has helped keep us together. I would like to know simply how can I attract her attention more and help her to relax and let go?

 
By Sim
2009-06-23 19:27:10
 

You have said a lot about scorpions personalities but what about sexual emotions? I think they are emotional so much that their sexuality depends on emotions they only attach to those who first emotionally satisfy them and want the same passion they have in their partner and are very fond of secrecy.

 
By Swati
2009-07-27 20:51:57
 

I completely go with how a Scorpio woman is described. We believe in the phrase "better alone than bad company" or "a wise enemy is better than a foolish friend". As far as I know, staying alone has helped me be more introspective and helped me move toward perfection at least up to an extent. End of the day, what matters is how I make a person feel when he is close to me. The brighter side of a Scorpio is that he or she knows what they want from life and are very determined and are not afraid of failures or criticisms, the darker side being they are short tempered and hyper sensitive sometimes.

 
By T.N.
2009-08-11 19:00:08
 

I agree with Michelle. I'd rather be alone than have someone who can never relate to how I feel be around me. It can be very frustrating when you feel like someone is trying to hurt you, but its better to know than be clueless and have them ending up stabbing you in the back. Reading everybody's comments made me feel much better, knowing that you aren't the only one in the world who feels like this.

 
By K.A.R
2009-08-30 21:14:55
 

I think this is so true especially the last paragraph I to find myself alone and lonely. Just like the other comments stated I would rather be alone then be with someone or around someone who couldn't relate to me an just do what I want to do to be happy.

 
By Phenix
2009-10-10 20:00:52
 

I would like to know more about Scorpio women. I'm fascinated by Scorpio women, and I find few places give detailed information. I want to know anything and everything about female traits and actions and so on. Any help will be appreciated.

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