Meet Your Soulmate: Creative Visualization
A great deal of this phenomenon is based upon our personal expectations of how we believe relationships work for us. The metaphysical power of expectations is remarkable. If we expect that all of our relationships will be exactly like Mother and Father's relationship was, then the odds are that this is what we will attract. That's fine if this is what we consciously want. Or, if we feel worthless and unattractive, we will have relationships which will mirror that inner belief back to us.
Unfortunately, these expectations are rarely more than partially conscious. What we consciously want in a relationship may be very different from what we unconsciously believe that we can have. It's very simple to determine whether this is occurring. Is your relationship with your significant other what you consciously want it to be? If so, great. If not, it may be time to do some inner exploration.
As with all aspects of metaphysics, controlling the manifestations of our subconscious mind is often a necessary step towards change. Creative visualization is an important part of this. If we can visualize or create a mental image of what we desire, and make it feel real to ourselves, the Universe will co-operate in manifesting our desire. The key point here is making it feel real.
When dealing with unconscious expectations we will sense how unrealistic our vision is. The steps to resolving this are pretty simple, but its important to realize that you aren't changing another, only yourself. If it seems impossible to visualize your happiness with your current mate, then just focus on yourself. See yourself as the kind of person who would attract the love and caring that you want. Amazingly often, previously unknown qualities emerge in our partner through this. And if we are single we are more apt to attract a soulmate relationship.
Allow yourself to daydream, but with conscious intent. See yourself in the picture having the necessary qualities which would attract the love that you wish for. There is a spiritual synchronicity involved here which is very effective. It seems that whatever we can visualize for ourselves, is already inherent within us. The visualization simply brings it up from the level of a latent quality to an active one.
Start creatively visualizing yourself as the type of person who attracts the quality of love that you desire. Allow your natural, lovable nature to reveal itself and what you visualize may just surprise you! A meeting of your soulmate might be just around the next corner.
Chinese Poem: IF
If there is light in the soul,
There will be beauty in the person.
If there is beauty in the person,
There will be harmony in the house.
If there is harmony in the house,
There will be order in the nation.
If there is order in the nation,
There will be peace in the world.